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Moulis Catering is proud to present
The Wedding Planner - the most comprehensive list of
wedding to-dos. You are about to undergo all that
happiness without the stress of the great day. We have
designed the wedding planner for you to help you
organize your wedding. The planner, though
comprehensive, is not exhaustive and may have to be
adapted to accommodate the special customs and rites
followed in your family.
How to decide a Wedding Location:
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Depending on the type of
wedding, discuss the size and the number of
functions with your side, your fiancé and both
the family members.
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Put a ceiling on the number of
guests at each event. Expect little more guests
for each event.
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Start searching for the right
venue(s).
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Give extra marks to the venues
that have a comfortable road access and grand
outlook.
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Check for enough parking space
for your guests, number of rooms and safety
measures. Check electrical facilities, ventilation
and sanitary facilities. If it is outdoors, will
the weather be good? Does the venue have a Fire
Safety Certificate? Also, make certain there are
no hidden costs such as cleaning up or valet
service fees.
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Discuss with both the family
heads and finalize the venue.
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Whatever you decide, make sure
you place a deposit for the venue and have the
booking confirmed in writing as soon as possible.
How to choose the right & the
Best Catering Service:
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The success of many weddings
rests upon the quality of the food and this is
often the most expensive part of wedding.
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Remember the best catering
service you have experienced in other weddings and
approach them first.
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Try and get quotes from the
best caterer/s sourced from different ways.
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Good 3 star Hotels can provide
a professional service, but will be quite
expensive.
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If you are using private
caterers, interview them (avoid ordinary Hotels
and Restaurants as far as possible), see their
background and credibility in the market and
discuss sample menus. Always discuss with the
families that conducted a wedding through the
caterer to know the direct experience in this
area. NEVER DECIDE WITHOUT PROPER REFERENCE. AND
NEVER BE CARRIED AWAY BY TALL PROMISES AND SMALL
PRICES!
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Ensure that the caterer
provides enough food for every guest and keeps the
serving dishes full and attractive throughout the
meal. An ongoing rapport with your caterer is
vital for keeping track on the expected guests
THINGS TO DO
First Stage
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Always deal all the aspects
with a smile.
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Decide the size of the wedding.
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The number of functions
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The number of guests expected
for each function from both sides.
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Decide the city/town/area of
the Wedding.
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Draw an overall budget (include
the Jewels, Gifts, Venue, Catering to Honeymoon)
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Source of Finance
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Remember the best wedding you
have attended and refresh your contacts with them.
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Create a timetable keeping your
regular activities in mind.
Second Stage
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Allocate responsibilities
between both Bride/Groom families. Create a list
yourself for the other family also. Think about
your family and use their expertise. For instance,
if your sister has a green thumb and likes to
arrange flowers, let her, if your mother is a
marvelous seamstress - engage her, and if your
father is a good at organizing dinner, you might
not need an event manager.
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Share the responsibilities
within your family members. Create a list also for
them and distribute to them well in advance.
Request all the family members to draw up guest
list and create the final list of guests.
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Visit design houses for wedding
invitations. Try to choose a design along with
your close ones. Make your invitation as much as
unique and new within your budget.
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Book a professional
photographer and/or videographer after seeing
their previous work.
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Choose florist and a floral
theme for your wedding.
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Discuss about trousseau,
wedding, and reception outfits with your fiancé
and start purchasing at the right places.
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Audition musicians/make music
arrangements for the Sangeet/Music Concert. Try to
give a list of Songs/numbers well in advance to
the Musician.
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Decide upon you lighting
requirements.
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Speak to travel agents about
honeymoon destinations.
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Revise your wedding budget;
compare the estimates from all your wedding
professionals.
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Set dates for pre-wedding
celebrations.
Third Stage
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Have all your bookings
confirmed in writing.
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Book Iyer/Pandit/Granthi for
the ceremonies.
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Maintain good contacts with all
your wedding professionals: caterers, florist,
musicians etc
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Start inviting your close
circle friends, relatives and outstation guests
first and complete the invitation list before15
days of the wedding.
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Choose wedding rings.
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Keep a record of acceptances
and refusals.
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Finalize your honeymoon plans,
make sure your passports and vaccinations are
up-to-date and you have applied for all necessary
visas
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Book accommodation for
out-of-town guests
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Plan your menu and any special
requirements with the caterers
Buckle up... 1 month to go
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Be sure your wedding clothes
are collected and ready to wear
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Make appointments with
hair-dresser and beautician
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Organize Mehendi artist
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Order Mithai and related items
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Finalize plans for the Sangeet
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Book your hotel for your
wedding night if required
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Make sure that you and the
groom have luggage for the honeymoon
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If required, book a Open
Car/Horse and some musicians for the groom's
arrival
Lets get cracking... 2 weeks to go
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Finalize the number of guests
and inform the caterers in writing.
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Arrange for all your Dresses
and Saris to be ironed and packed.
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Confirm with the florist the
exact arrangements for collection or delivery of
all flowers.
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Make final checks on all your
bookings
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Order relevant traveller's
cheques or foreign currency, if needed.
All set... 1 week to go
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Confirm all bookings
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Confirm final guest list
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Confirm menu with caterers
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Arrange for drinks / ice creams
/ gift bags to be delivered.
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Confirm arrangements for hired
crockery, cutlery, glassware or table linen.
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Your wedding clothes should be
ready, try on outfits.
The day before the wedding
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Your florist should prepare and
soak all flowers and foliage and have them ready.
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Make sure wedding cars are
well-serviced and clean.
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Pack your honeymoon suitcase,
ready for delivery to the reception. Make sure
your fiancé has packed his/her suitcases.
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Visit the hairdresser and
beautician (avoid heavy makeovers - you can always
look appealing if you wear a smile on your face).
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Try to relax and have an early
night.
How to order Invitations:
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A unique card with an elegant
design with carefully chosen words of love and
humbleness is well appreciated.
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Invitation cards give your
guests the first impression that expresses the
style of the wedding. They shall be imaginative
but elegant.
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See to that your card has more
earthy colours rather than dashy florescent
colours.
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If your plan is to print less
than 1000 invitations, opt for Screen Printing to
save cost at the same time giving your invitation
an ethnic look.
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Remember to send one card to
each family on your guest list. It is a nice
gesture to send an invitation also to friends and
relatives who you know will be unable to attend.
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Place the entire order at the
same time to save production costs.
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Order a few extra invitations
to allow for damages and unforeseen invitees.
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Invitations should be sent out
no sooner than two months in advance for the NRI
Invitees, one month in advance for the Outstation
Invitees and two weeks in advance to the Local
Invitees. This way, your guests will not forget
your wedding date and would be easy for them to
make plans to attend the wedding.
Photography/Videography:
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The most memorable and of
course, the most expensive event of your life has
to be well recorded for the future.
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Remember the photographer near
your place who shot the best of you or your
friends.
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Discuss your tastes and check
whether he had handled similar weddings.
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Discuss with your photographer
and develop an understanding of what kind of
pictures you would like. Explain all the religious
events going to take place in your wedding one by
one. Once he gets an idea of the type of wedding
you are having, he will be able to perform better.
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Book your photographer as soon
as you have seen his previous work and are
satisfied with it.
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Ask them to appoint assistants
for the group shots and him to take care of the
VIPs and close up shots of Bride/Groom
expressions.
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Most of the large
photo-agencies have their own videographers, so
work out a deal if you are having both a
photographer and videographer.
Get the Best Florist:
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Flowers are an essential
feature of any wedding event.
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The Flower decorations shall be
made in areas like the front elevation of the
venue, Back drop for the Bride & Groom, Malas,
Reception Tables, Stages and all the entrances of
the venue. Specially designed malas are easily
available for all sorts of wedding.
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Refer his album and decide on
him if he satisfies your need and fits in to your
budget
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Most of the marriage halls have
their own flower decorators who will do the
background decorations, Malas, tables and front
elevations of the venue.
Accommodation:
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Treat your guests from out of
town with little more special care. After all they
wanted to be with you and bless you for the best
of your life.
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Arrange accommodations near the
wedding venue. A nearby Hotel or a guesthouse that
also suits your budget can be the best choice.
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See to that their morning
breakfast and the night meal are available at the
place you select for their stay.
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Prefer hotels/Guest houses that
provides 24 hours check in and out.
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Prefer hotels/Guest houses that
have in-house restaurants.
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Apart from your guests, you
will need first night accommodation after your
wedding and before your honeymoon.
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If you are not spending the
night with your families traditional house, make
sure you have booked a honeymoon suite; some
hotels offer a suite Free to those who have held
their reception at their Hotel as complimentary to
the newly wedded.
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